A
sermon given by the Rev. Richard H. Taylor
May 15, 2005 / Pentecost
Confirmation
is in many ways like graduation. A course of instruction has been undertaken and
successfully completed. The leaders of the school are ready to congratulate the
students, and send them out into the world.
A
graduation ceremony is usually called a commencement. Its emphasis is on what
is commencing, what is beginning, what is starting. Commencements look into the
future, into the great uncharted world that lies ahead. So on these weekends,
right here in Rhode Island, speakers will talk to classes about their futures,
about tomorrow, about what is going to come.
And
confirmation is something like that. So we are here to think about the future.
But what I really
want to talk about is the now.
What
I have to say today is really anchored in the past.
In
the Biblical book of Ecclesiastes the Preacher says, "Remember now
thy creator in the days of thy youth (12.1)." I have always thought that
that text includes a strange contradiction. It would make sense if we said to
elderly people: "remember, remember." It would even make sense if we
were talking to middle aged people, perhaps middle aged people at the point that
their parents were dying, "remember, remember." But it seems strange
to say to youth, it seems strange to say to young people "remember, remember."
Of all the people in the world the youth have the least to remember. The younger
you get the less you remember, until we get to the very youngest, and they don't
remember anything at all.
So
here we have five young people looking to the future; squirming in their seats,
and eager for that time in the future when I will be done, and this will all be
over. Here they are young people looking to the future, imagining the future,
dreaming about the future, and I have the nerve to say to them "Remember!"
I'll ask them, what do you remember? How many memories do you have? Do you remember
word for word everything Jed and I have said to you this year? Do you remember
it well enough that you could recite it to all these people if I called upon you
now?
But I say
to you remember!
I
want to tell you, you can't survive in the world unless you remember. So while
you have one eye on the future, you need to have one eye on the past. At least
one eye is for remembering.
Remember
what?
Remember
that "While we were yet sinners Christ died for us." When you were born,
God in Christ Jesus loved you, cared for you, looked after you, prayed for you,
blessed you. You didn't know anything about it. Your language skills were so poor,
you couldn't have understood it if we told it to you. You didn't remember that
God loved you. But God did love you. Now its time to remember: God loves you.
When you were
a baby you didn't know that some adults cared for you, and loved you, and fed
you, and cleaned up your messes. You couldn't even remember their names. But now
I say to you, remember. The Bible says "I was wonderfully knit in my mother's
womb (Psalm 139:13,14)." Remember.
Remember
you have been loved. Remember you have been cared for. Remember God.
But
I want to say more to you. I want to say "Remember now."
Martin
Luther, they tell us, used to get up every day and put his hand on his head and
say, "Baptismo suo." That means "I am baptized." Every
day he began his life by saying "I am baptized," I belong to God.
That
is why I want you to remember now. I want you to remember today. I want you to
remember you belong to God. Know where you have come from.
Now
let me do the future part, let me tell you about the future. Some day in the future
you are going to be around some kids your age, and they are going to want to do
something stupid. I bet this will happen. Something stupid, like drink and drive,
or try some dangerous drug, or try sex without protection. I bet some of these
things are going to happen to you. And they will say "It's no big deal. Everybody's
doing it. Go ahead."
That's
when I want you to remember now, remember today. I want you to remember that you
stood up in front of all these people and said you promise to resist evil. You
promise to follow Jesus. So when they offer you temptation, remember now. Remember
your promise, say "Not me, I have decided to follow Jesus."
And
in that future out there, sometimes the temptation will come from within. Sometimes
a voice in your head will say "This week has been too rough, I don't care
anymore." Or sometimes a voice in your head will say "You look like
a wimp or a sissy to all of them, now you'll prove it's not so." Or your
voice will say, "Everyone else is getting away with it, why can't I?"
That's when I want you to remember now. You stood up in front of all these people
and made a promise: to seek the good way. Remember now.
And
some day out in that future you may be a parent. Some day out in that future you
may be in charge of someone else. Maybe soon you will be baby sitting. Or beyond
that there will be a child, wholly in your care, and you will be tired, and you
will be sick and tired of their screaming, and you will want to lash out and hit,
and hurt, and make them suffer. Some day those emotions may be in your future.
That's when I want you to remember now. Remember you stood in front of all these
people and said you chose to be a follower of God. Remember now.
Remember
who you are. Remember what you believe. Remember the decisions you have made.
When you remember you can live with grace, and love, and truth, and service in
the future. When you cease to remember you become like a little baby in a self-centered
rage. What makes you mature is that you remember. What makes you an adult is that
you have an inner sense of who you are.
When
Jesus knew it was going to be his last night, his last meal, his last supper with
his disciples, he was quiet, somber, thoughtful. He washed their feet. And then
he said to them "This do in remembrance of me." He talked with them
around the table. He shared his food with them. And he said "Remember."
"Remember me."
We
want you to sit at table and talk with friends. We want you to share your food
with other people. But most of all we want you to remember. Remember who you are.
Remember now. Remember Jesus.
Now
you belong to Jesus. You have given your life to God. Remember.
Amen.